We still have issues with the boys participating in family activities. They like to spend a lot of time in their room. We limit TV (1/2 an hour before bed) and they do not have gameboys or a computer in their room. They have to come out and join the family to do those things. We have made a lot of progress but we still have a long way to go. So when they join the family for an activity on their own it makes me happy.